Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Questions About Bosom Buddies Meaning

John asks…

Guy winked at me. Meaning?

Ok so theres this guy in my homeroom and 2 other classes and we do talk to each other sometimes but were not bosom buddies or anything. I think he's cute and I was talking to him about twilight. He said he was going to see it and I didnt believe him cause he's a jock but also super smart like me and I asked him who the main characters were to test him. He said Isabella, Edward, and Jacob and then he winked at me. He's the quiet but fun type. Can someone please interpret this for me?

admin answers:

A jock who's smart! Nice, very nice

a wink is generally not something between platonic friends. Especially considering the subject matter. Twilight is a romance between teenagers, similar to what your situation sounds like to me. It's a search for soul mates. If i'm right, it's possible that he's using the subject matter as a way to subtly introduce the fact that he might be open to dating you. Ya see, it's pretty subtle. The thing here is that i doubt that he's sure about what you feel about him - he ain't a mind reader. So, i think he's dropping hints and clues, but nothing too blatant.

My advice is to see how it goes from the movie. Why not go together?

Good luck!

Donna asks…

What is B. Hussein Obama's plan on drilling and becoming energy independent besides inflating our tires??

I followed the Prophet's advice and checked my tire pressure.

I know it sounds crazy, but I immediately felt better after I did it.

Now I really don't mind paying 4 dollars a gallon because Democrats have blocked every attempt at increasing domestic oil production. Thank you Obama. To think that a tire gauge could bring me such happiness.

One can only wonder what other crises will be solved thanks to his brilliant solutions.

Darn, I'm out of Koolaid. Will have to borrow some from an Obamist...they never run out.

Obama claims to have values right out of the Kansas heartland. That might be true but for the fact that people from the heartland tend not to associate with home grown terrorists, radical preachers who hate America, and con-men. Kansas heartland values don't include being ashamed of this country or wanting to become a "citizen of the world" (what does that even mean, anyway?). Heartland values don't include bashing your country while abroad or choosing to work out instead of visiting soldiers who are ill. Heartland values don't include socialism. They do include a bit of humility, something which Obama lacks.

John McCain is the American President, Americans have been waiting for. I'm not sure "what" Obama is (does anyone honestly know?) but he ain't American. Maybe he was born here, but the buck stops there. His penchant for radicals and racism, plants him squarely in the district he has come from, in Chicago Illinois, Bobby Rush, Farrakhan, Ayers, Rev Wright..... Racial Profiling and Afrocentric Legislation....

John McCain is a true "Red Blooded American" and he would die before he would listen to such "lesser men" run down and denigrate this Great Country. But Barack Hussein Obama, loved and "sought out" their company.... It seemed as long as "Hating American" was the common thread that brought, and held, this group together... They had Barack Hussein Obama's ear, (and) he lionized them in his books and his legislation.

Does anyone actually think that John McCain would have tolerated these radical America hating bosom buddies of Obama's, whose thoughts and actions I'm sure would remind him of his days in the Hanoi Hilton.... Would any person who truly loves this country listen to this (trashing of her) for years, all the while drafting and crafting legislation to support their radical American hating views with tax payers money....

I say nay, nay to Barack Hussein Obama, "who" ever he is, "what" ever he is and "where" ever he is from.... Radical, Muslim, Foreigner.... (Nay)

God Bless America
B. Hussein Obama remains opposed to new offshore drilling (although he now says he would accept a highly restricted version as part of a comprehensive package). Just last week, he claimed that if only Americans would inflate their tires properly and get regular tune-ups, "we could save all the oil that they're talking about getting off drilling."

This is bizarre. By any reasonable calculation of annual tire-inflation and tune-up savings, the Outer Continental Shelf holds nearly a hundred times as much oil. As for oil shale, also under federal moratorium, after a thousand years of driving with Obama-inflated tires and Obama-tuned engines, we would still have saved only one-fifth the oil shale available in the United States.

admin answers:

I think that it will vary every day, as his other "policies" have.

This guy is the king of smoke and mirrors. I think he is insulting to all Americans and thinks that if he changes his opinions enough no one will know how he feels and they will just vote for him because he is, well, you know, the chosen one.

Susan asks…

Would you have dealt with this in the same way and should I feel bad?

A little background information:

My 6 year old son died 5 years ago yesterday, he had leukaemia.

I have a friend who was very supportive after he died in that she raised a lot of money for a memorial for him and for the charity that supports the parents at the hospital where he was treated. She is a good person but is not one of my closest friends. I like her a lot but wouldn't say we were 'bosom buddies' if you see what I mean?

Yesterday she came over for coffee and we chatted a little about my son. The subject of what we believe happens to us after we die came up. As an atheist I don't believe in an afterlife, heaven or any such things.

My friend said 'What would you say if I told you he came to me the night he died and asked me to look after his mum and dad?' I said 'I'd say you were either dreaming or talking bollocks'.

She looked a bit affronted but dropped the subject.

I feel a bit awkward now - should I mention it to her again or just let it go?
Yes she knows what I believe - we had a humanist funeral and I have told her before that I think one you are gone that's it. I was maybe a bit abrupt but it was the anniversary :(
Sorry - 'once you are gone'. Also, she isn't a Christian either BUT does believe in ghosts/spirits etc.
Bradleys mom and threelittle girls - THANK YOU - really. I'm basically a nice person and hate arguments and feel grateful to my friend for all she has done but it really did annoy me when she said that. If my son were to appear to anyone it would be me or his grandma or his daddy or one of my very close friends. I don't know what made her say what she did but I think the things you BOTH said put together make me feel better about it.

admin answers:

Oh my, I've been in an all-too similar situation.
I'm Jewish. Religously, culturally, observantly Jewish. But when my daughter was dx'd with leukemia, church people showed up everywhere (including the hospital room 1 1/2 hours away which for reasons of profound and extended neutropenia was supposed to be limited to immediate family). When she died, it only became worse. There were two in particular (and as a matter of fact, one of them was very instrumental in fund-raising, donor searching, and so forth) who, I started to feel, only did this with an ulterior motive "If the Jews convert, we can get extra points" sort of thing. (And with a family history quite a bit older than xianity it's self, you can be sure nobody here is converting- but that seemed to make it an even bigger challege to them).
We were told about angels taking her 'to jezus', how she was now
'no longer blinded' and only wanted us 'to come to jezus'. There were, in all honestly, too many to get into.
What did I ultimately do?
When politeness failed, and simply contiunuing with our life as Jews failed, they were removed from our lives. Period. Totally.
As you probably know ,the death of a child changes some relationships in really profound ways, and I found one of the most profound, was in simply ending them, making them no longer worth it.
Yes I did feel like one of them felt if I was 'really appreciative' for what she did I would just run off and join her church- apparently maintaining my own honesty, ethics and commitment to my own G-d and people count for nothing.

Sounds like she is some kind of spiritualist? Well whatever it is, you have no obligation to it. And yes, if your son were going to show up, it would be to you:)
Sadly, I also found people liked to 'over state' their relationship to my daughter and to us once she was diagnosed and after her death. I don't know why. I had people tell me how they felt so bereft- people who had never bothered when she was alive and healthy! Telling *me* about their loss, of my very little girl!

People can be strange. There is something about sick children that can make strange people, become stranger.
You know yourself and your son.
Let it go, there is enough to deal with just finding peace and living it.

Charles asks…

do you think tom cruise is jealous of his MI 3 co-star phillip seymour hoffman? please read details?

Not only tom cruise but other great actors that havent won an oscar despite their great film performances yet actors like jaime foxx who has made movies like stealth and miami vice and charlize theron who made aeon flux after her oscar win and the above mentioned actor who was in along came polly (now that was an oscar performance)i mean cmon these people have made horrible movies yet they win cause they get good roles, theyre kinda like one movie oscar wonders though i guess. its kinda like dan marino and charles barkley who were great players but never got the big prize. but overall my ? i guess is winning an oscar really mean your a great actor or does it just mean you were a great actor but only in that movie? noticable exceptions repeat winners:tom hanks, who was in bosom buddies and hilary swank who starred in the next karate kid

admin answers:

I think you mean "envious." You're only jealous of something you have and want to keep!

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